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Top 10s you should know. Today's topic
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might sting a little, but sometimes the
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truth needs to hurt before it can heal.
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Because here's the thing, poverty isn't
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always about how much you earn.
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Sometimes it's about what you choose to
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tolerate, what you normalize, and what
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you refuse to confront. Some of the most
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dangerous things that keep us stuck
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aren't the ones that are obviously
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wrong. They're the ones that feel safe,
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easy, even comfortable. But comfort can
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be a trap. So today we're exposing the
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top 10 things keeping you poor that feel
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comfortable because awareness is the
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first step to freedom. Let's get into
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it. One, living paycheck to paycheck and
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being okay with it. It's oddly
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comfortable, isn't it? Getting paid,
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spending most of it, and waiting for the
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next check to roll in. It's predictable,
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familiar, and for many feels normal. But
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this cycle is a financial cage. It
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leaves no room for growth, emergencies,
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or investments. The danger lies in the
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illusion that as long as the bills are
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paid, everything's fine. But you're one
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accident, one job loss, one crisis away
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from financial freefall. Breaking this
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comfort zone means budgeting
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intentionally, tracking every dollar,
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and building even the smallest emergency
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fund. It's not exciting at first, but
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it's your way out. Two, staying at a job
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that doesn't pay you what you're worth.
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You know you're underpaid. you've known
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for a while, but the fear of change, the
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comfort of the routine, and that
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thought, "At least I have a job," keep
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you stuck. Staying underpaid slowly
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drains your potential and your power.
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Growth lives outside of comfort. And
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asking for more, whether that's a raise,
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a new position, or a total career pivot
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feels terrifying. But you weren't born
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to settle. The longer you stay in a
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lowpaying role that doesn't respect your
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value, the longer you delay your wealth
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journey. Three, relying on credit cards
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to float you every month. It feels like
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a safety net, right? Just swipe now and
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pay later, but eventually later catches
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up and with it comes interest rates,
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late fees, and debt stress. The comfort
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of credit makes you feel like you're
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managing while secretly digging a
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financial grave. The worst part, it
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becomes routine. You stop noticing how
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much you rely on it. Breaking this
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pattern starts with brutally honest
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budgeting, cutting back temporarily, and
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building a real cash reserve. Because
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freedom isn't plastic, it's peace of
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mind. Four, having expensive habits that
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you think you deserve. The daily coffee
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shop run, the Uber Eats orders, the $80
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hair product. You tell yourself, "It's
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just a treat. I deserve it." And sure,
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you do deserve joy. But when your small
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luxuries add up to big leaks, your bank
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account quietly suffers. The comfort of
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indulgence can mask the reality that
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you're overspending for instant
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gratification while sacrificing
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long-term security. The solution isn't
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deprivation, it's awareness. Track your
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treats for 30 days and watch the truth
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emerge. Five, keeping the same friends
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who normalize broke thinking. Now, this
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one hits deep because friends are home.
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They're familiar, but sometimes they
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also enable stagnation.
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If you're surrounded by people who laugh
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at saving, mock investing, or treat
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overspending like a joke, you absorb
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that energy. And the more you hear,
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yolo, just swipe it, the more normal it
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feels to live recklessly. Growth
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requires a new circle. People who talk
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about goals, budgets, and wealth with
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intention. It's uncomfortable but
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Six, avoiding financial conversations
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because they make you anxious.
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Let's be honest. How many times you
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delayed opening your banking app,
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avoided a credit card statement, or
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changed the subject when someone brought
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up money? You're not alone. For a lot of
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people, talking about money feels like
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ripping off a bandage that's been
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holding in years of shame, stress, and
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confusion. It's uncomfortable. And
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because it triggers anxiety, you tell
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yourself, "I'll deal with it later." But
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here's the catch. Later almost never
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comes. That short-term comfort you get
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from ignoring your finances, it comes at
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the cost of long-term clarity, security,
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and control. The more you avoid, the
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more the problem grows in the
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background, like a leak under the
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floorboards. Quiet, but destructive. You
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don't need to know everything. You don't
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need to solve it all in one night, but
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you do need to look. Take 5 minutes
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today to review your spending. Set a
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small goal, like reviewing your
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subscriptions or creating one budget
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category. Have a money conversation with
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a trusted friend or partner. Start
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small, but start. Because every time you
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look your money in the eye, you take
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back a little bit of your power.
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Avoidance feels safer in the moment, but
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facing your finances, even with fear, is
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how you finally build peace.
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Seven, renting forever because owning
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seems too complicated. Renting is
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simple. No maintenance, no taxes, no
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scary mortgage paperwork. It's
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convenient and it feels light. But over
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10 or 15 years, you're building someone
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else's equity, not your own. Home
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ownership isn't for everyone, and it
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doesn't have to happen right away. But
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if you never even plan for it because it
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sounds hard or scary, you're choosing
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comfort over generational wealth. Learn,
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ask questions, and prepare.
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Eight, watching TV or scrolling neck
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instead of building a side hustle. Let's
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be real. After a long exhausting day,
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all you want to do is collapse on the
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couch, throw on Netflix, and scroll your
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phone until your brain feels numb. And
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honestly, that comfort is tempting. It
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feels like self-care. But here's the
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truth no one likes to admit. Those quiet
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evening hours, they're the golden window
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your future self is begging you to use.
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While it feels relaxing, those hours of
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passive entertainment are slowly
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stealing the time you could be using to
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build something that frees you from
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financial stress. A side hustle doesn't
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have to be some massive business empire.
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It could be freelancing, selling digital
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products, content creation, tutoring,
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reselling, or even turning a hobby into
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cash. The problem is it doesn't feel
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urgent. Scrolling gives instant
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Building something gives slow progress.
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But guess what lasts longer? The results
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from the slow path. Think about it. Even
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one or two focused hours a night, 5 days
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a week, adds up to over 500 hours a
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year. Nine. Thinking budgeting means
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sacrifice. Instead of freedom, budgeting
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has a bad rep. People think it means
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saying no all the time, but in reality,
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budgeting is about choice, about giving
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every dollar a purpose so you stay in
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control. It feels easier to just wing it
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each month. But comfort in randomness
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leads to chaos. When you budget, you
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don't feel trapped. You feel empowered
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because you finally know where your
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money's going and how to make it work
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for you. 10. Believing that wealth is
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not for people like you. This is the
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most dangerous comfort of all. The
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identity of being broke. If deep down
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you believe wealth is for the lucky, the
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connected, the privileged, not for
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someone like you, then you'll never
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chase it. You'll sabotage yourself.
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you'll stay in your lane. But here's the
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truth. Wealth starts as a belief before
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it becomes a bank balance. The moment
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you realize you can learn, earn, and
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grow is the moment your entire life
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starts shifting. Comfort feels good, but
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growth feels better. The things we
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tolerate in silence are often the chains
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holding us back. So, which of these
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comfortable habits hit you the hardest?
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