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Top 10 Mental Habits That Quietly Ruin Your Future (You Don’t Even Notice Them)
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Jul 25, 2025
Sometimes, it’s not bad luck or lack of opportunity that holds you back — it’s the hidden mental habits you don’t even realize are there. In this eye-opening video, we’ll reveal the Top 10 mental habits that quietly destroy your future — from overthinking and procrastination to negative self-talk and fear of failure. These habits may seem small, but they silently shape your mindset, your actions, and your entire life path. Watch this if you want to: 🧠 Break free from invisible mental traps 🔥 Build confidence and clarity for your future 💡 Start making better decisions every day 🚫 Stop sabotaging your own success Most people never question these patterns — until it’s too late. Don’t be one of them. ✅ Hit like if you’ve struggled with any of these. 💬 Comment below: Which habit are YOU breaking starting today?
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Hello and welcome to our channel, Top
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10s You Should Know. Let me ask you
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something that may hit close to home.
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Have you ever felt like time is passing,
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but you're standing still? Like every
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year starts with hope, but ends with
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frustration. You might think it's your
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circumstances, your job, your finances.
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But the truth is, sometimes the biggest
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barriers are internal. There are silent,
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invisible habits living in our minds
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that sabotage our future while we're too
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busy to notice. They sound reasonable.
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They feel familiar, but they quietly
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strip us of courage, direction, and
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momentum. So, today, let's go deep.
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Let's uncover the top 10 mental habits
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that destroy your future without you
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even noticing.
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If you find yourself nodding to any of
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these, don't feel bad. Awareness is the
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first step to breaking free. Let's
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begin.
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One, constantly doubting yourself.
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Self-doubt is like a slow leak in your
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confidence. It whispers lies in your ear
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that you're not ready, not qualified,
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not good enough. And here's the worst
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part. It's quiet. It doesn't scream. It
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creeps in like fog. You stop applying.
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You hold back your voice. You settle.
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Every decision gets filtered through
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fear instead of faith. And it becomes
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your default. But what if I told you
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that most successful people doubted
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themselves, too? They just didn't let it
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stop them. The future you want requires
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risk, courage, messy first attempts. If
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you let self-doubt lead, you'll stay
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safe, but stuck. And safe doesn't build
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dreams, it buries them. Two,
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overthinking every little thing.
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Overthinking feels productive, but it's
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a trap. It convinces you that you're
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preparing when really you're just
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delaying. You replay conversations. You
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predict worst case scenarios. You
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analyze options so much you never
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actually choose. The truth is
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overthinking is fear in disguise. It's
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the fear of being wrong. But the future
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doesn't belong to the perfect planner.
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It belongs to the bold doer. And here's
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what they don't tell you. Clarity comes
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from action. You won't think your way
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into success. You'll move your way into
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it step by imperfect step. Three.
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Waiting for motivation instead of
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creating it. We've all done it. waited
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to feel ready, inspired, or motivated.
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Like, but motivation isn't a switch that
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flips on magically. It's a byproduct of
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movement. It shows up after you begin.
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The problem with waiting for motivation
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is that it trains your brain to depend
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on a mood. And moods are unreliable.
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But discipline, that's powerful. It's
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quiet. It's boring. And it works. The
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people who build the future they want
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aren't more motivated. They're more
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committed. They show up even when it's
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hard, even when they don't feel like it,
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because they know the real magic lives
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on the other side of effort. Number
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four, comparing yourself to everyone
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else. Comparison is the thief of joy and
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also the thief of momentum. Every time
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you measure your progress against
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someone else's highlight reel, you
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sabotage your own journey. You start
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doubting your pace, your path, your
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value. But here's what you forget. No
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one posts their failures, their
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self-doubt, their sleepless nights.
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You're comparing your behind the scenes
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to someone else's curated trailer. And
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that's not fair to them or to you. Your
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only competition is your past self. The
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goal isn't to be ahead of others. It's
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to be further than you were yesterday.
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That's it. Five, letting fear of failure
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paralyze you. Failure isn't the end.
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It's part of the process. But when you
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see it as shameful, you'll avoid risk at
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all costs. And in doing so, you'll also
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avoid growth. Every breakthrough you
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want is hidden behind a wall of fear.
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And here's the thing, fear never goes
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away completely. But courage isn't the
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absence of fear. It's the decision to
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act in spite of it. The most successful
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people failed more than you. The only
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difference, they got back up over and
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over. Let failure be your teacher, not
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your jailer. Six, saying yes to
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everything and everyone. Being helpful
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is beautiful, but saying yes too often,
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it costs you time, energy, clarity.
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Every yes to something unaligned is a no
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to something essential. And the problem
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is, you might not even realize it. You
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get pulled into other people's
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priorities. You become busy, but not
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productive. You feel exhausted, but
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guilty for resting. But you weren't
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meant to be everyone's hero. Your future
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needs boundaries. Your dreams require
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space. Learning to say no kindly, firmly
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is one of the most powerful habits you
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can develop because not every
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opportunity is aligned and not every
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request deserves your yes. Number seven,
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believing you have to do everything
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alone. We glorify independence. We
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celebrate the self-made, but the truth
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is no one builds anything meaningful
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alone. Believing you must struggle solo
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is a trap. It isolates you, slows you
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down, keeps you from receiving wisdom,
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help or encouragement. Asking for
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support isn't weakness, it's wisdom.
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Whether it's mentorship, friendship, or
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community, connection multiplies growth.
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The strongest people don't carry
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everything. They know when to lean, when
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to delegate, when to say, "I need help."
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And that's not shameful. That's smart.
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Eight, living in the past. Regret is
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heavy. And if you carry it too long, it
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becomes a prison. You replay what you
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could have said, what you should have
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done. You let the past define your
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future. But here's the truth. The past
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is over. It's a story. And every time
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you relive it, you're borrowing pain you
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don't need anymore. Your power lives in
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the present. The choices you make today,
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the mindset you carry now. You are not
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your mistakes. You are your recovery.
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You are your resilience. And your future
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deserves your full attention.
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Nine. Procrastinating progress one tiny
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delay at a time. Procrastination feels
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harmless, even logical. You tell
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yourself you'll start Monday after the
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holidays when life slows down. But life
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never slows down. Tomorrow becomes next
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week becomes next year. And dreams decay
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in delay. Procrastination isn't
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laziness. It's fear. Fear of not being
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good enough, of not doing it right, of
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starting small. But small starts are
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still starts. And waiting for the
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perfect moment is the fastest way to
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miss your future. Progress is messy.
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It's awkward. But it's worth it. So
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begin. Not because it's easy, but
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because it matters. 10. Underestimating
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your worth. You are more powerful than
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you know. But if you've spent years
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downplaying your voice, your gifts, your
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value, it becomes second nature. You
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don't speak up. You don't apply. You
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shrink politely. But shrinking serves no
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one. Least of all your future self. The
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world doesn't benefit from your silence.
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It needs your brilliance, your weird
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ideas, your loud laugh, your awkward
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questions. Stop underestimating your
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impact. You are worthy of more. Not
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someday, today. And the moment you
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believe that is the moment your entire
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future shifts. These habits don't
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scream, they whisper. And if you're not
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careful, they'll steal decades. But
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here's the good news. You can break
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them. One day at a time, one thought at
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a time, one choice at a time. So tell
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me, which of these mental habits do you
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struggle with the most? Let's be real in
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