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hello and welcome to top 10s you should
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know let's have a heart-to-he heart for
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a moment you work hard you put in the
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hours you're not lazy you're doing your
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best and yet when you check your bank
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account at the end of the month it's the
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same story you're stuck still broke
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still behind still one emergency away
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from disaster you wonder "why can't i
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get ahead is is it the economy my job my
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habits?" sometimes the real reason is
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silent it's invisible it's the financial
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loop you're stuck in one that keeps
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repeating itself without your permission
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these loops aren't obvious they look
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like normal life they sound like smart
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decisions but deep down they're costing
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you your peace your progress and your
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future so today we're diving deep into
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the top 10 financial loops you're
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trapped in without even knowing if you
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want to escape the paycheck to paycheck
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grind this is where the escape begins
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grab a seat grab your notebook let's
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break the cycle one earning more
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spending more you get a raise a better
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job a bonus and you feel proud
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rightfully so but almost immediately
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without thinking you start spending more
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you upgrade your car you move into a
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pricier apartment you dine out more
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often suddenly your expenses catch up
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with your new income and before you know
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it you're just as broke as before only
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now with nicer things this is called
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lifestyle inflation and it's a sneaky
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loop that feels like progress but it's
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really just a treadmill you work harder
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and earn more but your financial freedom
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doesn't move you're still waiting for
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someday when you'll finally save but
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someday never comes the truth just
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because you can spend more doesn't mean
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you should break this loop by locking in
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your lifestyle while your income rises
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channel the difference into savings
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investments and debt payoff your future
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self will be thankful too paying
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minimums on debt it feels like you're
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doing the right thing paying something
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is better than nothing right but minimum
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payments are designed to trap you that
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$4,000 credit card balance if you pay
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just the minimum it could take decades
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to clear and over that time you'll pay
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thousands sometimes tens of thousands in
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interest alone this loop makes you feel
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like you're making progress when in
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reality you're just treading water you
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see the same balance month after month
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and you wonder why you're never free
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it's exhausting the way out prioritize
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one debt and attack it with everything
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you've got while making minimums on the
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rest every extra dollar chips away at
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the chain you don't need to be debtree
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overnight you just need to stop feeding
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the loop three confusing wants with
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needs i need this that phrase gets us in
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trouble more than we realize the problem
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is we often confuse comfort with
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necessity that daily $7 coffee isn't a
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need that weekend shopping trip that
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brand new phone upgrade those aren't
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essentials they're cravings and every
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time you indulge and justify you're
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normalizing the loop you're teaching
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your brain that temporary desire equals
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long-term value but it doesn't the
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dopamine fades the item gets dusty and
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the bank account suffers breaking this
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loop takes honesty ask yourself before
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any purchase will this improve my life
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in 30 days 6 months a year if not wait
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let the urge pass reclaim control over
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your money and your mind using credit as
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a safety net you run out of cash so you
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fall back on your credit card gas
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groceries even rent it starts as
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survival but slowly becomes a habit you
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start depending on borrowed money for
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basics and now you're not just paying
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for today you're paying interest on
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yesterday this loop keeps you in a cycle
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of debt stress and dependency the way
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out build a small emergency fund even
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$500 use cash or debit for daily
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spending credit should be a tool not a
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five subscribing to everything using
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almost nothing that $9.99 here $4.99
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there it feels small harmless but over
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time subscriptions become financial
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quicksand you forget about them you
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hardly use them but they quietly pull
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$100 $200 or more from your account
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every month the loop guilt you tell
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yourself you'll use them next week but
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you don't and the charges continue break
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free by doing a subscription audit every
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3 months cancel ruthlessly and remember
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if you're not using it you're renting
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six ignoring financial education let's
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be honest most of us were never taught
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about money not in school not at home so
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we wing it and when we don't understand
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how interest works or how investing
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builds wealth we avoid it altogether
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that avoidance becomes a loop of
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ignorance fear and inaction but
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knowledge is power and it's never been
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more available podcasts youtube blogs
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financial education is everywhere start
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small one concept a week the more you
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know the freer you become so seven
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living for appearances you buy the
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outfit the phone the vacation not
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because you need it but because you want
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to be seen having it social media fuels
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this loop we compare we compete we post
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but behind the filters is financial
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strain you're trying to look rich
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instead of becoming rich the truth real
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wealth is quiet it's the savings you
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don't post the investments nobody sees
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the peace of mind when bills come in and
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you don't flinch break this loop by
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focusing inward not outward postponing
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investing because it feels too late or
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too small you think investing is for
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rich people or older people or people
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who know the stock market so you delay
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another month another year but here's
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the truth the earlier you start the
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better even if it's just $20 a week
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because time not timing is the real
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power of investing the loop is thinking
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"i don't have enough." when in reality
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starting is enough begin where you are
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compound growth needs one thing your
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commitment nine relying on one source of
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income one job one paycheck one stream
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that's how most people live but in
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today's economy that's not just risky
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it's dangerous one change a layoff a cut
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in hours and your whole life spirals
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that's the loop you trade all your time
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for one income stream and it keeps you
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financially fragile the exit start
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something small on the side freelancing
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flipping tutoring anything that gives
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you a second leg to stand on because
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stability doesn't come from one income
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it comes from options 10 not setting
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clear money goals you work you earn you
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pay you repeat but what's the goal
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saving some money isn't a goal getting
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out of debt is vague without clear
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financial targets how much by when and
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why you drift you react instead of plan
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and that's a loop that keeps you from
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building real wealth define your goals i
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want to save $5,000 in 12 months for a
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down payment now your money has
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direction and direction breaks cycles
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there you have it 10 financial loops you
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might be trapped in without even
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realizing it some of these loops whisper
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they don't scream they blend into your
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daily routine disguised as normal
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reasonable even smart choices but slowly
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quietly they drain your energy your
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progress and your wealth and the
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scariest part they feel safe they feel
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familiar they feel like just the way
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things are but the truth is you don't
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have to live like that you don't have to
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spend your entire life stuck in the same
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cycle working hard earning more yet
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never really moving forward because
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recognizing the loop is the first step
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to breaking it so now it's your turn
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look inward which of these loops hit you
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the hardest was it lifestyle inflation
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emotional spending avoiding financial
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education be honest not for me but for
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you drop your thoughts in the comments
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let's build a space where people talk
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about money openly without shame without
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fear because here's what i believe and i